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So lets say your 34 and you met a lass thats 40, dated her since last year. You get on very well. Shes super hot . Looks terrrific for a 30 year old let alone 40. 10/10

She wants to settle down . You have the same ideas.  No kids involved from her side. Would you guys do it ? I mean over the years ,looks dont last her personality is still great.

 But when your approaching 40. Shes approaching 50. Is that much if a gap? Would it start bothering you later ??

No bagage from her side. Downside her age. Would i ever pull a younger version of her. Absolutely not. 

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32 minutes ago, Lovelyjubly said:

So lets say your 34 and you met a lass thats 40

In reality mate, 6 years difference is nothing...

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34 minutes ago, Lovelyjubly said:

So lets say your 34 and you met a lass thats 40, dated her since last year. You get on very well. Shes super hot . Looks terrrific for a 30 year old let alone 40. 10/10

She wants to settle down . You have the same ideas.  No kids involved from her side. Would you guys do it ? I mean over the years ,looks dont last her personality is still great.

 But when your approaching 40. Shes approaching 50. Is that much if a gap? Would it start bothering you later ??

No bagage from her side. Downside her age. Would i ever pull a younger version of her. Absolutely not. 

Totally irrelevant.age is just a number mate.

My sister is 34.she has a kid from a previous relationship.the guy treated her like dirt.she gave up a lot for him,and he was just lazy,standout who did nothing.

She's now with a guy who's 58.he treats her really well and he's good with my niece and she likes him and gets on with him.it's a contentious thing with the rest of my family,who don't talk to the guy or even acknowledge him.

I tell her.don't worry what other people or the rest of the family say.if you like him and Caitlin(that's my niece) gets on with him.then go for it.life's too short,you don't get many chances of happiness in this world and so you'vegot to grab any chance of happiness you can get.

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My mum's in her 50s and all my friends still tell me they want to shag her... 

Then again I'm 8 years older than my missus, aint nothing but a number, personality goes a long way aswell

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It 'could' matter.  Once a woman goes through the change, it's 50/50 whether you'll get a go on that now dried up old snatch she used to willingly give you.  And if she's currently in shape, you can say goodbye to that once you're living as a couple.  There'll be too many soaps to catch up with on tv while shoving down biscuits.  Oh, and have you seen those adverts by Tenna?  The ones for womens pants they can piss in that "look pretty" (really? Do women actually wear those on a date, "Do you like my new knickers? Excuse the piss stains at the front and massive log in the back").  Yes, women wee a little at any time as they age. And get depressed.  And dry up for sex.  Don't do it. There's a reason she's still single, get one 10 years younger.

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I'm 38 and I dated a 42 yr old. Best relationship of my life. Only lasted a year or so for various reasons, but nothing to do with age. 

She even had 3 kids, which were 50/50 custody with their father. Absolutely no issue whatsoever. 

Go for it @Lovelyjubly

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2 hours ago, Lovelyjubly said:

So lets say your 34 and you met a lass thats 40, dated her since last year. You get on very well. Shes super hot . Looks terrrific for a 30 year old let alone 40. 10/10

She wants to settle down . You have the same ideas.  No kids involved from her side. Would you guys do it ? I mean over the years ,looks dont last her personality is still great.

 But when your approaching 40. Shes approaching 50. Is that much if a gap? Would it start bothering you later ??

No bagage from her side. Downside her age. Would i ever pull a younger version of her. Absolutely not. 

Sounds very Rolf Harris'y 

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Age shouldn't matter, that gap isn't anything to worry about. Had a fling with a lass who was 12 years older than me several years ago, it was a lot of fun. If you like her and you're happy then crack on.

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Just stay with her until she turns all dry and crispy then get rid :thumbup1: surely she got another 15yrs left in her lol

 

Joking aside, I really dont get why you asking such a question unless you are just braggin you've pulled an older woman. Crack on with it, aslong as she looks after herself and you are happy with the relationship then why not...

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I'm 44 and the wife is 53 been together 20 years she's still hot and loves sex and to top it off she's got a great sense of humour. We spend all our time together and laugh every day.

If anything she's got more energy than I have. She's the one that loves to socialise and has loads of hobbies.

Age doesn't matter if you are compatible and share the same goals. 

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4 hours ago, Lovelyjubly said:

So lets say your 34 and you met a lass thats 40, dated her since last year. You get on very well. Shes super hot . Looks terrrific for a 30 year old let alone 40. 10/10

She wants to settle down . You have the same ideas.  No kids involved from her side. Would you guys do it ? I mean over the years ,looks dont last her personality is still great.

 But when your approaching 40. Shes approaching 50. Is that much if a gap? Would it start bothering you later ??

No bagage from her side. Downside her age. Would i ever pull a younger version of her. Absolutely not. 

50 yr olds can be hot and fit and active. 

And unhinhibited cos they done it all before.

And kind and understanding cos they seen it all before.

And receptive to your confident approach and demeanour cos they divorced their fuckwit loser husband.

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4 hours ago, Fattynomore said:

Can still be hot at 50 if she chooses, on the other hand what makes you think you will still be desirable at 40.

Good point.

So, OP you must always do your bit.

If it works out, great.

If it doesnlt work out, you're still hot property to someone else.

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