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So I've recently broke up with the Russian babe that I was supposed to marry in few months, I finally got the divorce papers signed and approved from my ex wife (the other one the Asian babe lol) 

And to be  honest, I don't really feel bad. 

I mean, for 10+ years I always put gf, mrs or family in front of my priorities, to the point that I really never asked myself what I wanted, lost my identity and ghosted many friends (majority of my friends are women, except for a few lads) 

 

Now I can finally ask myself what does (insert my real name) want? 

And is beautiful. 

I am  a  very sociable person. 

Already met tons of  new people 

 

Zillions matches on Tinder too lol. 

 

And I last night organised a night out with new coallegues and I honestly wasn't laughing like that in ages. 

 

Even my flatmates and people around are telling me that all in all when I am single I am a better person by milles and not only my attitude changes for better but I even look better, less tired, no sleepiness marks under the eyes (my bad English I don't know how they called) 

 

I also enjoy to have some alone time too, park on sunny 24C days, cortado and a book when I want no people. 

 

I am really enjoying being single and not only because of the free shagging lol. 

 

I am 33 I just moved to Madrid, I just started a office monday to Friday high paid job that is so good and pays so good (especially for Spanish standards) that here people would give their left nut to have it, and also that I like doing. 

I feel quite lucky even i people feel sorry for my breakup (I really don't, should I feel sorry for this?) 

I feel like my life is really just starting now single and happy, but happy like I don't even remember ever being. 

 

That's all, thanks for reading. 

 

@anna1 get in here and bring some single and happy woman wisdom :D

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29 minutes ago, Frandeman said:

And Madrid it's a s**t hole :P

 

 

It's way better than London, quality of life and everything else, honestly I wouldn't even compared them as London is just a stressful place, but of course you are Spanish so the grass of the neighbours is always greener isn't it:P

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17 minutes ago, IronJohnDoe said:

It's way better than London, quality of life and everything else, honestly I wouldn't even compared them as London is just a stressful place, but of course you are Spanish so the grass of the neighbours is always greener isn't it:P

I lived en Vallecas at 19 

Used to drive a delivery van high as f**k

Crashed 3 times in 6 months 

Then came UK :D

 

 

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26 minutes ago, Frandeman said:

I lived en Vallecas at 19 

Used to drive a delivery van high as f**k

Crashed 3 times in 6 months 

Then came UK :D

Shoulda complained to @vetran that the van he flogged you was no good, gitano!

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2 hours ago, IronJohnDoe said:

So I've recently broke up with the Russian babe that I was supposed to marry in few months, I finally got the divorce papers signed and approved from my ex wife (the other one the Asian babe lol) 

And to be  honest, I don't really feel bad. 

I mean, for 10+ years I always put gf, mrs or family in front of my priorities, to the point that I really never asked myself what I wanted, lost my identity and ghosted many friends (majority of my friends are women, except for a few lads) 

 

Now I can finally ask myself what does (insert my real name) want? 

And is beautiful. 

I am  a  very sociable person. 

Already met tons of  new people 

 

Zillions matches on Tinder too lol. 

 

And I last night organised a night out with new coallegues and I honestly wasn't laughing like that in ages. 

 

Even my flatmates and people around are telling me that all in all when I am single I am a better person by milles and not only my attitude changes for better but I even look better, less tired, no sleepiness marks under the eyes (my bad English I don't know how they called) 

 

I also enjoy to have some alone time too, park on sunny 24C days, cortado and a book when I want no people. 

 

I am really enjoying being single and not only because of the free shagging lol. 

 

I am 33 I just moved to Madrid, I just started a office monday to Friday high paid job that is so good and pays so good (especially for Spanish standards) that here people would give their left nut to have it, and also that I like doing. 

I feel quite lucky even i people feel sorry for my breakup (I really don't, should I feel sorry for this?) 

I feel like my life is really just starting now single and happy, but happy like I don't even remember ever being. 

 

That's all, thanks for reading. 

 

@anna1 get in here and bring some single and happy woman wisdom :D

Jump on a massive cycle, bang 6k calories and download tinder and have a lot of viagra on hand.

 

Enjoy yourself lad

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1 hour ago, Frandeman said:

I lived en Vallecas at 19 

Used to drive a delivery van high as f**k

Crashed 3 times in 6 months 

Then came UK :D

 

 

Things changed now, you can charge your phone on the metro and metro actually works without a single delay, but yeah Vallecas is a shitty suburbs area

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53 minutes ago, anna1 said:

@IronJohnDoe

congratulations honey !

didn’t have a good feeling about it 

now stay single for a while

what’s the matter with everyone needing to be coupled ? x

Oh then I'll ask you advices in future :)

We should start a thread 

"Ask Anna" :P

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27 minutes ago, Mrmotivator said:

Jump on a massive cycle, bang 6k calories and download tinder and have a lot of viagra on hand.

 

Enjoy yourself lad

I am already doing some serious quality matches, geez I been out of the game too long. 

Test Var Cialis and stock up on gondoms hahaha 

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33 minutes ago, AncientOldBloke said:

@IronJohnDoe

OK, so MsAsia2018 is finalised.

Are you gonna now formalise MsRussia2019 or just run it as it is?

I am now moving into playboy bunnys and lingerie/fitness models. 

So materialistic of me:whistling:

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5 hours ago, IronJohnDoe said:

So I've recently broke up with the Russian babe that I was supposed to marry in few months, I finally got the divorce papers signed and approved from my ex wife (the other one the Asian babe lol) 

And to be  honest, I don't really feel bad. 

I mean, for 10+ years I always put gf, mrs or family in front of my priorities, to the point that I really never asked myself what I wanted, lost my identity and ghosted many friends (majority of my friends are women, except for a few lads) 

 

Now I can finally ask myself what does (insert my real name) want? 

And is beautiful. 

I am  a  very sociable person. 

Already met tons of  new people 

 

Zillions matches on Tinder too lol. 

 

And I last night organised a night out with new coallegues and I honestly wasn't laughing like that in ages. 

 

Even my flatmates and people around are telling me that all in all when I am single I am a better person by milles and not only my attitude changes for better but I even look better, less tired, no sleepiness marks under the eyes (my bad English I don't know how they called) 

 

I also enjoy to have some alone time too, park on sunny 24C days, cortado and a book when I want no people. 

 

I am really enjoying being single and not only because of the free shagging lol. 

 

I am 33 I just moved to Madrid, I just started a office monday to Friday high paid job that is so good and pays so good (especially for Spanish standards) that here people would give their left nut to have it, and also that I like doing. 

I feel quite lucky even i people feel sorry for my breakup (I really don't, should I feel sorry for this?) 

I feel like my life is really just starting now single and happy, but happy like I don't even remember ever being. 

 

That's all, thanks for reading. 

 

@anna1 get in here and bring some single and happy woman wisdom :D

Hope you're doing ok but from someone who tried to talk like you when I split with mine, you dont sound ok....more like you're trying to justify and replace.   It's ok to be a bit bust up over it, I'm sure I was only reading posts a few weeks ago about how you've got a banging babe  best sex best life etc? Hit me up in the DMs if you need a shoulder brah  (or a dick pic or whatever :lol: )

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4 minutes ago, empzb said:

I'm sure I was only reading posts a few weeks ago about how you've got a banging babe  best sex best life etc?

Funnily enough, I thought that too. Those thoughts or posts are indeed the danger warning signs that something is about to implode.

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54 minutes ago, AncientOldBloke said:

Funnily enough, I thought that too. Those thoughts or posts are indeed the danger warning signs that something is about to implode.

Been there, done that, if it stops someone ending up like me at those times for all the forum bravado and jokes - its not worth fronting up.

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Well done bro, good to hear its working well for you. Wish i had a good job in spain too lol, Spanish is my first language as well .

 

As per the wives thing, maybe you give too much of yourself when you are with someone, that happens with a friend, whenever hes with someone he is a completely different person, not only we dont see him much but he wont seem to be very happy either. 

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@IronJohnDoe has all the ‘Nohomo’ chat turned you into a ‘Sohomo’? I remember reading you’re a big fan of [email protected] so just wondering if it’s been a slippery, KYnd of slope from being on a non-lifters forum who are mainly closet sword fighters (I’m not btw). Maybe we didn’t see the signs coming. Maybe we’ve been so consumed with our own fantasy personas of being imaginary lifters that we didn’t support our UKM brothers during their hour of transitional need. 
 
Sparkey rented himself out for tree-fiddy a go, Matt Numbers dropped his soap.....and liked dropping  his soap, @vetran is ‘in & out’ of the forum. UKM members are dropping like amyl sniffing flies. We failed you, brothers. 

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