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Its messed my head up big time

 

Ive gone from feeling like an alpha male to feeling submissive and ive been like this for the last five years

 

wtf do i do? i only did it cause i was bored

 

I almost feel like a gay guy whos fighting it but only im fighting the submissive bdsm feeling

 

i seen a therapist and one said to do more bdsm and another said i have ptsd and not to do bdsm again

 

please help guys, ive  gone from having my own flat and business to being a down an out

 

is there a way back for me?

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12 hours ago, lee222 said:

Its messed my head up big time

 

Ive gone from feeling like an alpha male to feeling submissive and ive been like this for the last five years

 

wtf do i do? i only did it cause i was bored

 

I almost feel like a gay guy whos fighting it but only im fighting the submissive bdsm feeling

 

i seen a therapist and one said to do more bdsm and another said i have ptsd and not to do bdsm again

 

please help guys, ive  gone from having my own flat and business to being a down an out

 

is there a way back for me?

Isn't this normal on here?

solutionis to simply up the dose!!

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12 hours ago, lee222 said:

Its messed my head up big time

 

Ive gone from feeling like an alpha male to feeling submissive and ive been like this for the last five years

 

wtf do i do? i only did it cause i was bored

 

I almost feel like a gay guy whos fighting it but only im fighting the submissive bdsm feeling

 

i seen a therapist and one said to do more bdsm and another said i have ptsd and not to do bdsm again

 

please help guys, ive  gone from having my own flat and business to being a down an out

 

is there a way back for me?

more details required mate

did your dominatrix put her whole arm in? Everyone knows you never go past the elbow without consequences 

back me up bro @Natty Steve'o or you still replying to pm's  

 

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Sounds to me like you've been a very naughty boy and you need to be punished!

On a serious note however, assuming not a troll post. Just put it behind you and move on. Furthermore, cellar accommodation (aka dungeons) are cheap to rent.

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Cause you made yourself into a bitch and lost your alpha. You'll have to do a bunch of alpha s**t to undo your bitchness.  Going be hard work cause you sadly became a submissive bitch.

I'd personally suggest.

Fuk hoes but be alpha as Fuk maybe slap em about a bit. 

Take steroids 

I dunno can't be bothered going gym cause I didn't loose my alpha but i did try bang a trannie other day but couldn't nut but this didn't effect my alpha because I don't care but if it bummed me alpha would of been lost. 

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8 hours ago, Sasnak said:

Sounds to me like you've been a very naughty boy and you need to be punished!

On a serious note however, assuming not a troll post. Just put it behind you and move on. Furthermore, cellar accommodation (aka dungeons) are cheap to rent.

im trying my best mate but i just cant i feel in a state of trauma and ive gone really camp, im in my 30 ffs its killing me

 

tbf some of the replies made me laugh but im being genuine and im not trolling

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12 hours ago, united said:

Join a Bodybuilding forum to ask about BDSM - makes perfect sense

where else can i ask?

 

i tried on a bdsm forum and i got dogs abuse

 

i tried seeing a therapist and she tried to get me to go to a fetish club, i think most therapists are liberals, they mean well but they make me worse

 

at least this is a forum full of real men so id respect your advice more

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13 hours ago, Chelsea said:

Blaming BDSM with a dominatrix for the loss of your flat and business....

Priceless.

She got him fired, moved into his flat, and has him chained to the bed...how the hell he got to a phone I don't know, bet he's gonna pay for it now :)

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On 25/07/2017 at 0:12 PM, Heavyassweights said:

more details required mate

did your dominatrix put her whole arm in? Everyone knows you never go past the elbow without consequences 

back me up bro @Natty Steve'o or you still replying to pm's  

 

Unfortunately you know it's true sweet cheeks.. I must remember to remove my watch next time  x 

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On ‎25‎/‎07‎/‎2017 at 11:11 PM, lee222 said:

where else can i ask?

 

i tried on a bdsm forum and i got dogs abuse

 

i tried seeing a therapist and she tried to get me to go to a fetish club, i think most therapists are liberals, they mean well but they make me worse

 

at least this is a forum full of real men so id respect your advice more

spill the beans

how gay are you? Super gay like @Natty Steve'o or closet gay like @hdu

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im straight but i get asked if im gay a lot

 

never happened to me before this happened

 

i know people taking the piss but my head feels f**ked i just cant function

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1 hour ago, lee222 said:

im straight but i get asked if im gay a lot

 

never happened to me before this happened

 

i know people taking the piss but my head feels f**ked i just cant function

Why can't you function? Lots of gay men live meaningful lives. 

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