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as title says, how'd you cope during that phase were things look so blea after you've lost your gf/lover or maybe just a crush?

i dont really have many outlets and tend to be a extreamly closed off person, just wonderd about everyone else
 

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russforever said:
hit the gym harder, rant about them being snakes with tits, porn, porn, porn, motivate myself to not get down about it and tell myself how awesome i am
i've never been able to 'turn' somthing such as upset into anger, i dont really understnad how people do.

asfar as convinving myself im awsome - i'm extreamly paraniod about myself even at the best of times.
 

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Get out, do new things and do what you can to refocus and re align yourself.

If you do something that requires your undivided attention I can guarantee you wont be thinking about them.

On a side note ive never understood how or why people can go flippantly from one relationship to the next, declaring their love within a matter of weeks and never be single?
 

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On a side note ive never understood how or why people can go flippantly from one relationship to the next, declaring their love within a matter of weeks and never be single?
my ex has just done that to me, split up begining of june, shes with a new guy mid point of july - all boils down to she mustve been cheating all along

as for dealing with it, dwelled on it for some time, then thought f*** it, i can do what i please now without answerring to anyone

more gym/martials arts time :D (martial arts is good to focus your mind)
 

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I thought i wouldn't even think twice but the other halves away for 3 weeks only been gone a week and I've realised already how empty the two non-gym days are during the week (the days she comes round)

I think I'd lower my standards and start ploughing through unattractive sweaty fat drunken bar women :)
 

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And no one likes a game of soggy biscuit!

On a serious note, ur gonna dwell for a few weeks its to be expected! Time will heal it, I suggest deleting her from facebook and deleting fone number etc, so u dont get tempted to grovel to her in a drunken stoopor! Be strong and think of something you've always wanted to do but never had the chance!
 

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Irish Beast said:
Id probably celebrate getting rid of the hateful bitch.
:lol: lol

Personally, i hit the gym harder, play my music louder and think of all the pros of being single.

My f**k buddy has gone now, so i have to find another one but tbh im going to ask her out (fell for her just before she went away for 2 f**kin month! - typical) - More gym for me, more self playing too :cursing:
 
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