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premature ejaculation talk, again

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I know there was premature ejaculation talk 4 month ago but here goes.

Anyone gonna admit to it?

if so how long they had it, how often does it happen and have they found any "cures" or helpful ways to get around it and stop it from happening as much?

please only sensible comments,

thanks people

pickle

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Not "tensing" your dick when having sex makes you last a whole lot longer, if I'm crazily horned up though I cum quick and have no problem admitting it doesn't really matter if you carry on anyway. Nothing to be embarassed about mate, it's just extra lube!

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not as easy as that mate. this is not just a "one off" but thanks

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What I do, is basically pull out if I'm ready to blow and work on something else. Then back in again once the wolf is from the door.

Two things...

If your with a girl your not in a relationship with, does it matter if you blow early

If I'm with a partner then she shouldn't mind stop/starting until you get into your rythm

Also, I reckon in terms of evolution and reproduction, we're built to ejaculate as soon as possible.

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Another tip if you're gonna shoot your load, quickly pull your nob out and give your bellend a slap:)

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Kegal exercises might help?

Also knock one off 2-3 hours before sex. If im going on a date or something that looks like it might end in sex I knock one off before I leave, so i'm not ready to burst when the moment comes.

Another thing, if I feel like im gonna blow early, I maybe pull out and "tease" for a bit (really just recovering) then move onto a bit of RNB slow sex for a bit.

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its getting to the stage where im trying to hide away from sex and dont get turned on by it ( although i am mega horny watchin/reading porn, because i ave no1 to "impress".)

i've tried pulling out, i've tried viagra, cialis. been to see a sexual health person and many other things but it is still happening.

its ****ing me off, getting me angry depressed sad and unhappy.

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You're puttin too much pressure on yourself so you're in a continuous cycle.

When knocking one out...get to the point then stop, do this a few times before you blow your load (may take up to 10 minutes lol) a few weeks of this will definately help

This should be able to help you to stop/start during sex

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Run a shed load of test, beat ya dick silly then crash bad, ya won't even be able to get it up, And ya won't even care if ya cum early as the hottest bird wont even interest ya :thumb:

But seriously i feel for ya..

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Is it really that bigger deal? Can't you carry on fuking after you've cum? I really don't think chicks would mind if you still pleasure them afterwards, seriously it's nothing to get depressed about.

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wish i could cum quickly lmao

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cant carry on afterwards. the old boy goes as limp as a soggy digestive biscuit.

and in answer to your question, "is it that bigger deal?"

it has been going on for 11 years, sometimes im on, eg when drunk or when i used to smoke weed i was ok because my mind was off the job.

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This does tend to go away with age. Before you know it, it will be taking too damn long!

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I know how u feel m8 - I've been having probs getting it up in a 1 to 1 relationship - docs recommending Viagra. When I'm looking at porn (or doing cyber r-play) I'm ok (u can tell I'm a sad bastard!) - but 4 real its getting difficult.

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I'd love to be able to come quickly now and again...

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Sounds like you are loading pressure on yourself mate, but can understand that after all this time.

Try being in a position where you are in total control (kneeling missionary or doggy) so that you can decide when you pull out to 'take a break' and reset. Squeeze the end of your knob when you pull out and it should help you come back down to earth and then continue. Just do this until you feel you are in control.

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just w/\nk more

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My mate had the same problem, he saw a sex counsiler(sp) and they said his problem was ****ing too much! Almost as though he had his own separate sex life! They suggested leaving it alone for a while.... Now he laughs about it and has no probs:)

on a side note I had severe anger issues and got given cypromil and I couldn't come even if I wanted too:lol:

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My mate had the same problem, he saw a sex counsiler(sp) and they said his problem was ****ing too much! Almost as though he had his own separate sex life! They suggested leaving it alone for a while.... Now he laughs about it and has no probs:)

on a side note I had severe anger issues and got given cypromil and I couldn't come even if I wanted too:lol:

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Don't worry about it mate, like someone else said if its a one night stand who cares! If its with your mrs then she will understand.

I have this problem sometimes but its not a big deal to me, by making it not a big deal you take some pressure off yourself and this helps you to last longer.

Tell her before hand the first one will be a waste as your mega turned on. It's not your fault she is fit a fvck and has made your nuts swell to the size of melons (they love to think they turn you on that much).

Then have a 5-10 minute break for a kiss and a cuddle or maybe some rug munching then step back to it when he's ready.

I once had a girl say aren't you embarassed, i said "why would i be, he'll be fighting fit in 5 minutes" she just laughed and snuggled up to me for a while.

As someone else said we are supposed to cum quick have you ever seen a nature program where intercourse has lasted above 5 seconds... 2 pumps and a squirt and thats your lot.

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i always used to get sometimes when i was with a woman for the first time - i think it was the tension but i told the girls that they should take it as a compliment.

nowt to be ashamed of - i reckon most if not all blokes will shoot to soon at some point.

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I would say alot of youre problem is in your head mate, the more you think about it and put pressure on yourself, the harder the problem will be. Just relax and dont worry about it, this way youll probably find find the problem will go eventually

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As has been said you need to give yourself some space and think that it does not matter. It happened to me years ago and i was thinking about nothing else and it was horrible. It is true as you age you start to love yourself and care less about what others think of you, it is easy to say and hard to do but just drop it for a while and think about other stuff. Physically withdrawing and squeezing the helmet to force blood away from the tip worked for me or you can try the changing positions technique and give yourself time to compose yourself. For me constant banging away was the worse. slow down and pleasure her more delicately that can help too....good luck bud.

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Don't think you have to be like a pornstar mate, they do it as a job so there going to be a bit more controlled.

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alcohol (not too much so you cant get it up) but it numbs it a bit which helps

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