Irish Beast

Female friendship advice - Serious as possible please!

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 i think you are reading too much into it,if ,what and when.just go and have a good time and see if or what happens then take it from there.

 

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If she wants a relationship and is ready, don't be the one who misses out. If shes interested she will let u know , if you don't step up then someone else will !

You can be respectful of the fact she has just broken up with her man, but don't be the one who misses the boat either.

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she sounds like shes testing the waters in that f**ked up rebound way that women do,

if youve not known them long, then she is unlikely to be asking you round for 'support/friendship' as thats what other girls do,

if shes abit sour from the breakup she could be giving her self an ego boost by seeing if youll bite (cause of rebounds),

try finding out if shes just on the rebound or something else and decide what you want to do..

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Perfect scenario, friends with benefits

Balls deep, none of the s**t that comes with relationships :thumb

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Yeh I would be going over there and my sole purpose would be getting my balls licked while eating a taco 

nice guys finish last beast, go in doing whatever you want, worry about the consequences later, and then avoid them by drinking alcohol.. 

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9 hours ago, Irish Beast said:

Serious responses please as this is a little tricky for me being a woman hater and all that!  

Cheers

You do realise this is UKM and not Mums.net, dont you!? It's obvious what responses you're going to get. Haha. 

In all seriousness though, buddy, @graham58 hit it on the head. Don't overthink it, just go and enjoy yourself and what will be, will be. :thumbup1:

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Stop overthinking it and just take it at face value IMO.

I think it would be silly to discount anything on the basis of offending someone you hardly know who is moving abroad too so I'd not say owt to him, she's a free agent and checking in with her ex/hubby will do you no favours.  

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2 hours ago, a.notherguy said:

How long were they together for? If years then it's a very different situation to if they'd only been together for a few months. 

That I am not sure off. I get the feeling not overly long but have yet to ask. I could be totally wrong of course!

Anyway the decision has been made for me as it happens. She missed her flight yesterday back to the UK and is crippled with Crohns today. Feel quite sorry for her as she was looking forward to getting back.  Maybe its a sign! 

 

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what I'm gonna say might not sound srs to you BUT i'd say it anyway as this is what I would do if I were you...

 

Bang the sh!t out of her and make sure you both have a great time while you're there...

 

simple as that...

 

 

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11 hours ago, Irish Beast said:

I found her attractive but she was in a  relationship and I'm not a scumbag

...I am sure her motives are friendship, mine certainly are (bullshit, see highlighted above) although she is a very attractive lass.

 

10 hours ago, Irish Beast said:

 Just don't think it would be right so quickly after a split even if the offer was there. Not trying to be Mr nice guy here but think it would be wrong to take advantage (God, you're such a fanny). Saying that on the other hand its been a while! lol (Just fu**ing admit it... you want her fanny juices all over you)

 

10 hours ago, Irish Beast said:

Joking aside it would depend on hoe much wine had been consumed. My tolerance is pretty high though. 

I honestly do no, I can't honestly answer that question (you're lying to yourself (in denial))

 

9 hours ago, Irish Beast said:

I have only heard her side of the story (sure you have, because you couldn't give a f**k about him) and she said she broke up with him as he was boring and did not have time for her daughter. However they went on holiday to their home abroad in an attempt to patch things up but hasnt worked out for her hence why she is coming back. Seems to be happy its over but I think shes putting on a brave face (is she f**k, he sounds a boring c**t).

I know you probably wont see that as 'serious', but it is.

My prediction on the situ is you've fallen for her and don't want to get hurt... either that or your fighting some sort of moral dilemma, just get over it and go and have some dinner (and remember to wash your cock before).

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Thanks for that Mark but you are so far off on pretty much every comment! 

I have only met her twice and a few facebook chats so hardly fallen for her! Her plans have all changed now so I will wait and see if she  makes the offer another time. If she doesn't fine, if she does I'll start a new thread!

Not a moral dilemma btw. Just very defensive when it comes to women so wanted opinions from other parties as its easy to become deluded and my track record with women is laughable. I have been told to write a book! "How not get laid and get assaulted by women" by Irish Beast

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2 minutes ago, TinTin10 said:

I would have f**ked her and been nearly through dealing with a guilty conscience by now

Easyjet are doing everything in their power to ensure these nuts are not getting emptied any time soon!

To be honest maybe I am overthinking it and one of my resolutions was to stop being so nice. Might go eat her out of house and home and leave her with a face like a painters radio. Haha

 

 

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Just now, Irish Beast said:

Easyjet are doing everything in their power to ensure these nuts are not getting emptied any time soon!

To be honest maybe I am overthinking it and one of my resolutions was to stop being so nice. Might go eat her out of house and home and leave her with a face like a painters radio. Haha

 

 

ATTA BOY !

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On 10/01/2017 at 11:40 AM, 2004mark said:

I know you probably wont see that as 'serious', but it is.

My prediction on the situ is you've fallen for her and don't want to get hurt... either that or your fighting some sort of moral dilemma, just get over it and go and have some dinner (and remember to wash your cock before).

Everything you pointed out in your quote was accurate. Even if he personally doesnt believe it, that neanderthal part of his brain kicked in months ago.

@Irish Beast Smash n Dash kid, you know what im saying?

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39 minutes ago, Irish Beast said:

Thanks for that Mark but you are so far off on pretty much every comment! 

I have only met her twice and a few facebook chats so hardly fallen for her! Her plans have all changed now so I will wait and see if she  makes the offer another time. If she doesn't fine, if she does I'll start a new thread!

Not a moral dilemma btw. Just very defensive when it comes to women so wanted opinions from other parties as its easy to become deluded and my track record with women is laughable. I have been told to write a book! "How not get laid and get assaulted by women" by Irish Beast

Mate... I'm sure everyone as a teen fell in love with a stripper over a 5 min dance... time is not a factor.

It's only lust. So you'll forget about her in a few weeks and she'll forget about you even quicker... especially when she starts lining up 5 dates a week on tinder.

All i can say is eye's on the prize and get in there quick.

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On January 10, 2017 at 1:40 AM, mangob said:

@Irish Beast What an invite your thread is :) 

Seriously - friendship with women can exist, if you are mature enough and both understand boundaries.

In your case a few things seem to come together.

On the one hand here is a lady, that has become available and is clearly looking for company, your company.

On the other hand is yourself, that enjoys the companionship, but does not seem to want to jeopardise it, because you do not want to lose this connection.

Your fear of being a rebound or any of the sort is surely justified, but I sense some fear of losing this connection as well. Since you did say, that you feel lonely at times.

From what you have explained, you do not know her motives and therefore, there is no harm in going for dinner.

What you should clarify - is 1. Who broke off the relationship 2. preferably the reasons why.

Ladies correct me if I am wrong please. If the woman ends the relationship, in most cases, thats it. End of Story. A woman can exist in a relationship and detach from her partner in that time, so when she pulls the trigger - you are left wondering WTF just happened. (Men can do that same - woman seem to be quite keen on this type of behaviour.) Woman can then quite "easily" go on with their life, whereas men have a further battle with their ego's. Intimacy may be a different issue, but I think you understand what I am trying to say.

What I am getting at - have the dinner, see where the convo goes and take it from there. Be aware, that if she is simply out for sex and you deny her, she could break off the friendship out of embarrassment. Either way you may be in a tricky spot. Tread lightly and enjoy what ever the outcome may be.

 

Alternatively it could be the beginning of something beautiful :thumb

P.S: leave the ex out of it.. thats none of your concern.

Lol...when she pulls the trigger!  But I agree women are good at that. In his situation he should look out for the other thing women are good at when they split with ex as he mentioned, then trying to get them jealous. So I suggest as u said find out her intentions.

re the having opposite sex as friends I have never been able to do that, the guy inevitably always  wants something eventually, it starts off great but iv never known it last without the ' oh oh here we go' routine happening. unless it's a male gay friend! 

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On 10/01/2017 at 0:07 AM, Irish Beast said:

Long story short. Wont go into the details as I usually follow my gut but I think my gut may be wrong on this occassion.

Met a couple a few months back. Got on with both but they did not seem to get on with each other. 

Lo and behold they split up a few weeks back and Ive kept in touch with her as he doesnt use Facebook.  I found her attractive but she was in a  relationship and I'm not a scumbag

She has invited me to dinner. I am sure her motives are friendship, mine certainly are although she is a very attractive lass. I don't want to be some rebound style guy but she is adamant its over with ex partner. They will be in different countries soon. I want to be friends with her as she will be alone now and I get lonely too. Just not  wanting to be used as ammunition to make the ex jealous, although thats maybe very horrible of me to say. 

Question for the girls and a the guys. Do  you think I should just go for tea and be pleasant? I have no intentions of making a move or anything like that as she has just come out of a relationship. Is it too soon to have some food with her. Its not a date but I don't want to be made a fool of but also don't want her to have no friends here as that would be very hard on her.

Serious responses please as this is a little tricky for me being a woman hater and all that!  

Cheers

Give her the Dick

That's all she needs :D

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