Long story short. Wont go into the details as I usually follow my gut but I think my gut may be wrong on this occassion.
Met a couple a few months back. Got on with both but they did not seem to get on with each other.
Lo and behold they split up a few weeks back and Ive kept in touch with her as he doesnt use Facebook. I found her attractive but she was in a relationship and I'm not a scumbag
She has invited me to dinner. I am sure her motives are friendship, mine certainly are although she is a very attractive lass. I don't want to be some rebound style guy but she is adamant its over with ex partner. They will be in different countries soon. I want to be friends with her as she will be alone now and I get lonely too. Just not wanting to be used as ammunition to make the ex jealous, although thats maybe very horrible of me to say.
Question for the girls and a the guys. Do you think I should just go for tea and be pleasant? I have no intentions of making a move or anything like that as she has just come out of a relationship. Is it too soon to have some food with her. Its not a date but I don't want to be made a fool of but also don't want her to have no friends here as that would be very hard on her.
Serious responses please as this is a little tricky for me being a woman hater and all that!
Cheers
Met a couple a few months back. Got on with both but they did not seem to get on with each other.
Lo and behold they split up a few weeks back and Ive kept in touch with her as he doesnt use Facebook. I found her attractive but she was in a relationship and I'm not a scumbag
She has invited me to dinner. I am sure her motives are friendship, mine certainly are although she is a very attractive lass. I don't want to be some rebound style guy but she is adamant its over with ex partner. They will be in different countries soon. I want to be friends with her as she will be alone now and I get lonely too. Just not wanting to be used as ammunition to make the ex jealous, although thats maybe very horrible of me to say.
Question for the girls and a the guys. Do you think I should just go for tea and be pleasant? I have no intentions of making a move or anything like that as she has just come out of a relationship. Is it too soon to have some food with her. Its not a date but I don't want to be made a fool of but also don't want her to have no friends here as that would be very hard on her.
Serious responses please as this is a little tricky for me being a woman hater and all that!
Cheers