Thread: Girlfriend problem,opinions wanted

You know your gf is a bitch, do something about it lol.


Friend was their before the shagpiece so should get preference.

Male here. Sounds like she's jealous.

Talk through it with her to find root cause?

I'd hope she's saying that it may spilt you two up as a joke as this seems relatively trivial. Hope it all works out.

From what you have said your gf sounds like a control freak.

Ditch the Bitch.

i think ur gf is takin the p1ss. the other woman is a friend and was around long before gf, wot business is it of hers if ur friends call/text u? have u tried talking to her to find out why shes being unreasonable?

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Originally Posted by Al Kerseltzer

I'll try and keep this short. Im 44 the gf is 40, we’ve been together 18months, living together around 3 months.<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p>
i have a female friend who ive known for 4-5 years and we're good mates. she is around 51. my gf met her once , didnt like her and now hates and i mean hates her with a passion. i have never had any sexual contact with this friend , my gf knows that and knows shes no threat.<o:p></o:p>
my gf said she doesnt want her phoning me when we're together so i asked my friend to call me during work hours and not weekends so no problem. then my friend txt me some jokes as usual and my gf says that i should tell her that she can only txt jokes when we're not together as well! now i find this fcuking ridiculous that my mate can only text me jokes between the hours of 9am-3.30pm mon - friday but gf says i always take sides with my friend and this is on the verge of splitting us up. <o:p></o:p>
am i being unreasonable or is my gf being reasonable?<o:p></o:p>
opinions please from females and males<o:p></o:p>

Honestly, is the friend fit????

As soon as i moved in to the gfs place she started this sort of thing. My friends became her targets, if i disagreed with her she twisted it round to me not supporting her..
Get her to cool it or move out before you have too much to lose.

she only has your word you didnt bang the friend, my mrs reackons she may see your friend as a rival and so wants her gone as soon as, it probably just comes down to your mrs insecuritys. whatever you say to her will not really make her feel secure, to you its daft and annoying to her it maybe a massive problem.

You are not overreacting. Your girlfriend is being over the top and very controlling. You need to tell her that she needs to get her act together and respect you and your life, if she wants to be a part of it.

It is none of her business who is texting you and she does not have the authority over your telephone. If she is not capable of understanding that you have a female friend then perhaps she is not the one for you.

She is obviously jelous of "the other woman" and you need to make her feel secure. If you already tried everything to make her understand that there is nothing between you and your friend and she still keeps carrying on, then it is time for you to reconsider your relationship.

If you let your girlfriend carry on like this, she will control you and your relationship all the way through.

Originally Posted by manson

she only has your word you didnt bang the friend, my mrs reackons she may see your friend as a rival and so wants her gone as soon as, it probably just comes down to your mrs insecuritys. whatever you say to her will not really make her feel secure, to you its daft and annoying to her it maybe a massive problem.

Thats why I asked if she was fit???

Because lets be honest, none of us males have fit firends we wouldnt bang...

SO if your friend is fit then you would bang her..>

An another thing, why is she texting you jokes al time and sh1t like that??

Only "bird" friends that do that to me im pretty sure fancy me...

Come on guys, if we are honest, deep down we all know what the score is....

Why does everyone pretend this women is nuts????

LMFAO

AL and his bird has an argument lets say

Goes see his "fit" friend whos secrerlty been in love with him for years, comforts him, nails him...

OH but i never expect that LMAFO

And another thing

All you women out there


1) with just male "freinds"

WRONG you dont have any, pretty much they all want to nail you if your fit

Or if you fat and sh1t then they prob dont..
ANd deep down you all know this, but your pretend you dont, and when out of blue said friend "says" well ive loved you for years" you pretend you had no idea when thats bollox and whole time you knew but you used him for your own ends..
If your fat and ugly, generally these rules dont apply

Blokes out there with female friends

If they are fit, you have considered banging them if

1) Your not gay
2) they are not fat and ugly

Originally Posted by jw007

Thats why I asked if she was fit???

An another thing, why is she texting you jokes al time and sh1t like that??

Only "bird" friends that do that to me im pretty sure fancy me...

Not necessarily. I personally send jokes to all my friends. I also receive quite a lot of jokes from my friends as well and that is not a flirting procedure. It's called: keeping in touch.

Originally Posted by jw007

And another thing

All you women out there


1) with just male "freinds"

WRONG you dont have any, pretty much they all want to nail you if your fit

Or if you fat and sh1t then they prob dont..
ANd deep down you all know this, but your pretend you dont, and when out of blue said friend "says" well ive loved you for years" you pretend you had no idea when thats bollox and whole time you knew but you used him for your own ends..
If your fat and ugly, generally these rules dont apply

Blokes out there with female friends

If they are fit, you have considered banging them if

1) Your not gay
2) they are not fat and ugly

so true
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