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Mr T · 03-09-2003, 08:37 PM

guys ok this mite sound silly but here goes.. I work in a leisure centre and get quite a bit of bad manners from members of the public but theres one in particular is getting over the top for me, problem is hes 15 and im 22..Hes really bothering me, getting to me so much i have had to make this post. When he sees me in here and hes with his mates all i get from him is specky bXXtard etc, when im in town with my gf its the same, shouting from a distance and its emabarrasing and he makes me feel low in front of my gf, look i am twice this cubs weight and im getting to the stage i wana rip his head of, some advice please guys cause ripping his head of is not an option..

btw this has been going on well over 2 years now..:(

Jock · 03-09-2003, 09:31 PM

Damn bro that kid sounds like a right little sh*t

I'm not condoning violence but sometimes it takes 'a quiet word' for things like this to settle down.

The next time you see him out wait until he goes to the toilet, follow him, grab his balls and tell him that if he doesn't leave off you'll rip them off and feed them to him:guns:

I had the same kind of problem when I was in school, at the age of around 13-14 I got a lot of sh*t from this one lad, so I just stood up in a science lesson and punched him in the face.

We started scrapping until the teacher broke it up, man I wanted to kill him.

I know this wasn't the best thing to do, but that kid sure as hell never bothered me again.

Jock

#22 · 03-09-2003, 10:00 PM

Mr T these kids are all the same, they act all tough around friends and try to look funny/cool. All you have to do is give him a right telling off. Don't be like shout at him as loud as you can, just loud enough to get the message accross, better yet do it infront of his mates. He'll just get embarassed or at least slightly scared and hopefully not want to do it anymore. If he's doing it at the leisure centre alot aswell can't you ban him or something? I mean the boss can't just let little kids like that in there if they'r causing a disterbance. Anyway i hope you sort him out soon, as 2 years of annoyance is plenty.

Alan · 03-09-2003, 10:01 PM

I understand what your going through mate.i use to live in a not such a nice area and my car got broken in to twice and was told that it was such a body (who was 15) the police knew him very well but couldn't do any thing cos i had no solid proof aswell as his age.till one day in the evening i heard some car door banging noises, i take a look and theres three guys in my car i storm outside with my socks on well ****ed off ,they jump out and run,i managed to grab one of them who happen to be the same guy, banged him hard against a lamp post and suddenly my mind just went blank,i realised how tiny the ****er was i just didn't know what to do with him and my girl friend shouting from the front garden"DON'T DO IT" so i let him go and im glad i did.he never tried anything since then infact ive not seen him even walk past my street until i moved out and it suited me fine.It is a bit of an arkward situation mate as if you were facing a man at least you know where you stand i have to give you credit though for being a cool man cos in your shoes i would have probably hit that kid by now.

demon · 04-09-2003, 12:14 AM

I was going to suggest that you just ignore him, but if it's been going on for over two years...

Maybe Jock's right - maybe you should have a 'quiet word' with him some day when he's on his own.

It's a tough one.

Raven · 04-09-2003, 08:52 AM

"A quiet word" would appear to be the best option but if I know the type it won't stop him, maybe it's better if you do him a little damage, but just don't tell anyone or let anyone see.

Here's what happened a few years ago when I used to work in Belfast college. There was a guy that worked there and helped look after the student workroom but there was this guy who was always acting the hard man and having a go at him, he thought nothing would happen to him. But one day the guy who worked there followed the guy out of college and waited until he got him in a place where no one was around, well he knocked the crap out of him. The next day, he told the college what happened, the staff member was called into his bosses office, he just denied everything and said that he had it in for him and was lieing, there was no proof so he got away with it.

***Lorian*** · 04-09-2003, 09:45 AM

I'd see if you can get his membership termintated for being abusive to staff.

If after that he continues shouting at you in town, punch him. hard.

People like that only understand one language.

Hope you get it sorted mate, let us know what happens..

L

Mr T · 04-09-2003, 10:38 AM

ok just got home and read this post and have had a chat with my brother and it turns out he knows the cub whos giving me this bother and this what is going to happen. My brother who is 18 works in the snooker and amuesment club in the town and he says this cub bes in every nite without fail and tomorrow night will be no exception. My brother got really ****ed of as i just told him what has went on and hes gonna pull this prick on it tomorrwow. Hes gonna wait to he comes in and make a fool out of him in front of my brothers mates, hes gonna scare him by physically grabing him, holding him againest the wall and asking him whats his problem with me, then hes gonna throw him from one side of the room to the next, show him the front door then bar him and then its my turn to smile at him, my bro says he picks on most in the club but tomorow is gonna put an end to it..

thanks for all the support guys..

demon · 04-09-2003, 11:28 AM

Sounds like a plan!
Let us know what happens.

**Great White** · 04-09-2003, 07:58 PM

Mate

Personally i would scare him. Just grab him by the throat and show him just how strong you are.

Im sure one you have lifted him off the floor, infront of his mates, he is gonna be so embarressed that he wont bother you again.

He will also feel like the little prick he is.

It`s not as though his mate are gonna stick up for him if you do somthing. They will all be scared as soon as you kick off.

Dont hit him, cause he will proababbly be the kind that mouths off, but as soon as you touch him he will do you fot GBH.

Just scare the little bastard.

Good luck Bro

Paul

Cheater2K · 07-09-2003, 03:23 PM

Personaly, i agree with paul, then if he wants ago, whack him. Do it infront of his friends, just have a few of yours incase they all want ago

CONDOR · 11-09-2003, 08:07 PM

Ever had an ABH charge brought against you? thought not else you would realise the guys is a prick......mate you think things are bad at the mo, wait till you throttle him and he gets you arressted, people like him never take their kicking on the chin and think.humm maybe i deserved it, they always throw their toys out of the pram and you will land in a world of ****, an ABH case is messy.

Mr T · 12-09-2003, 09:38 AM

its sorted now guys

Jud6572 · 12-09-2003, 12:53 PM

Mr T I work in a leisure centre and get this problem regular....well I did. You wanna make sh*t like this stop? Only one way mate follow this philosphy and the little f*cker will never bother you again as long as you've got a hole in your ar*e.

Follow him. roughly about 2 weeks should do it. Every time he sees you let him do what he wants show off etc in front of his mates. Once you've followed him you'll notice that he's got a certain place at a certain time of day when he's always there without fail.

He'll leave his house alone every day to go to school.

One day drive past and get someon to drop you off round the corner of where he is. Grip him and give him the warning no need to hit him.

The reason why he'll never bother you again mate is because he'll be waiting for you again looking over his shoulder all the time s*itting himself

Jud6572 · 12-09-2003, 12:55 PM

Ive done this so many times and it scares the crap out of people trust me I haven't had a peep of a w*nker at my house in 5 years and I live in a very rough part of Manchester people dont like being watched it scares the living sh*t out of them.

Sorry for the essay guys but I know how he feels.

03-09-2003, 08:37 PM	#1 (permalink)
Mr T Looking Freaky Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: N.Ireland Posts: 709	advice needed guys, im gonna crack guys ok this mite sound silly but here goes.. I work in a leisure centre and get quite a bit of bad manners from members of the public but theres one in particular is getting over the top for me, problem is hes 15 and im 22..Hes really bothering me, getting to me so much i have had to make this post. When he sees me in here and hes with his mates all i get from him is specky bXXtard etc, when im in town with my gf its the same, shouting from a distance and its emabarrasing and he makes me feel low in front of my gf, look i am twice this cubs weight and im getting to the stage i wana rip his head of, some advice please guys cause ripping his head of is not an option.. btw this has been going on well over 2 years now..:( __________________ To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

03-09-2003, 09:31 PM	#2 (permalink)
Jock LEAGUE LEGEND! Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: UK Posts: 3,020	Damn bro that kid sounds like a right little sht I'm not condoning violence but sometimes it takes 'a quiet word' for things like this to settle down. The next time you see him out wait until he goes to the toilet, follow him, grab his balls and tell him that if he doesn't leave off you'll rip them off and feed them to him:guns: I had the same kind of problem when I was in school, at the age of around 13-14 I got a lot of sht from this one lad, so I just stood up in a science lesson and punched him in the face. We started scrapping until the teacher broke it up, man I wanted to kill him. I know this wasn't the best thing to do, but that kid sure as hell never bothered me again. Jock __________________ To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

03-09-2003, 10:01 PM	#4 (permalink)
Alan Newbie Trainer Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Manchester Posts: 51	I understand what your going through mate.i use to live in a not such a nice area and my car got broken in to twice and was told that it was such a body (who was 15) the police knew him very well but couldn't do any thing cos i had no solid proof aswell as his age.till one day in the evening i heard some car door banging noises, i take a look and theres three guys in my car i storm outside with my socks on well **ed off ,they jump out and run,i managed to grab one of them who happen to be the same guy, banged him hard against a lamp post and suddenly my mind just went blank,i realised how tiny the **er was i just didn't know what to do with him and my girl friend shouting from the front garden"DON'T DO IT" so i let him go and im glad i did.he never tried anything since then infact ive not seen him even walk past my street until i moved out and it suited me fine.It is a bit of an arkward situation mate as if you were facing a man at least you know where you stand i have to give you credit though for being a cool man cos in your shoes i would have probably hit that kid by now. __________________ Can't think of a siggy yet

04-09-2003, 12:14 AM	#5 (permalink)
demon Looking Freaky Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Northern Ireland Posts: 809	I was going to suggest that you just ignore him, but if it's been going on for over two years... Maybe Jock's right - maybe you should have a 'quiet word' with him some day when he's on his own. It's a tough one. __________________ DEMON "We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then, is not an act, but a habit." - Aristotle

04-09-2003, 08:52 AM	#6 (permalink)
Raven Hardcore Moderator Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: The Bowery Posts: 849	"A quiet word" would appear to be the best option but if I know the type it won't stop him, maybe it's better if you do him a little damage, but just don't tell anyone or let anyone see. Here's what happened a few years ago when I used to work in Belfast college. There was a guy that worked there and helped look after the student workroom but there was this guy who was always acting the hard man and having a go at him, he thought nothing would happen to him. But one day the guy who worked there followed the guy out of college and waited until he got him in a place where no one was around, well he knocked the crap out of him. The next day, he told the college what happened, the staff member was called into his bosses office, he just denied everything and said that he had it in for him and was lieing, there was no proof so he got away with it. __________________ To find what was lost you must first go back to the beginning and find it again To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. http://www.ucw.biz/

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#22 Gym Addict Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Stamford, Lincolnshire Posts: 357	Mr T these kids are all the same, they act all tough around friends and try to look funny/cool. All you have to do is give him a right telling off. Don't be like shout at him as loud as you can, just loud enough to get the message accross, better yet do it infront of his mates. He'll just get embarassed or at least slightly scared and hopefully not want to do it anymore. If he's doing it at the leisure centre alot aswell can't you ban him or something? I mean the boss can't just let little kids like that in there if they'r causing a disterbance. Anyway i hope you sort him out soon, as 2 years of annoyance is plenty.

04-09-2003, 09:45 AM	#7 (permalink)
*Lorian* Administrator Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Cheltenham Posts: 2,478 Blog Entries: 1	I'd see if you can get his membership termintated for being abusive to staff. If after that he continues shouting at you in town, punch him. hard. People like that only understand one language. Hope you get it sorted mate, let us know what happens.. L __________________ Now wearing the Captain's Hat.

04-09-2003, 10:38 AM	#8 (permalink)
Mr T Looking Freaky Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: N.Ireland Posts: 709	ok just got home and read this post and have had a chat with my brother and it turns out he knows the cub whos giving me this bother and this what is going to happen. My brother who is 18 works in the snooker and amuesment club in the town and he says this cub bes in every nite without fail and tomorrow night will be no exception. My brother got really ***ed of as i just told him what has went on and hes gonna pull this prick on it tomorrwow. Hes gonna wait to he comes in and make a fool out of him in front of my brothers mates, hes gonna scare him by physically grabing him, holding him againest the wall and asking him whats his problem with me, then hes gonna throw him from one side of the room to the next, show him the front door then bar him and then its my turn to smile at him, my bro says he picks on most in the club but tomorow is gonna put an end to it.. thanks for all the support guys.. __________________ To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.*

04-09-2003, 11:28 AM	#9 (permalink)
demon Looking Freaky Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Northern Ireland Posts: 809	Sounds like a plan! Let us know what happens. __________________ DEMON "We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then, is not an act, but a habit." - Aristotle

04-09-2003, 07:58 PM	#10 (permalink)
Great White Sexy Moderator Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: United Kingdom Posts: 9,240	Mate Personally i would scare him. Just grab him by the throat and show him just how strong you are. Im sure one you have lifted him off the floor, infront of his mates, he is gonna be so embarressed that he wont bother you again. He will also feel like the little prick he is. It`s not as though his mate are gonna stick up for him if you do somthing. They will all be scared as soon as you kick off. Dont hit him, cause he will proababbly be the kind that mouths off, but as soon as you touch him he will do you fot GBH. Just scare the little bastard. Good luck Bro Paul __________________ Welcome to Uk-Muscle.co.uk "I was born perfect, and just like the great white shark, have never had to evolve!" To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. - Hardcore Bodybuilding & Powerlifting Community! To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. - Bodybuilding & Sports Video Sharing Community!

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11-09-2003, 08:07 PM	#12 (permalink)
CONDOR Gym Addict Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 269	Ever had an ABH charge brought against you? thought not else you would realise the guys is a prick......mate you think things are bad at the mo, wait till you throttle him and he gets you arressted, people like him never take their kicking on the chin and think.humm maybe i deserved it, they always throw their toys out of the pram and you will land in a world of ****, an ABH case is messy.

12-09-2003, 09:38 AM	#13 (permalink)
Mr T Looking Freaky Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: N.Ireland Posts: 709	its sorted now guys __________________ To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

12-09-2003, 12:53 PM	#14 (permalink)
Jud6572 Gym Addict Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Manchester UK Posts: 216	Mr T I work in a leisure centre and get this problem regular....well I did. You wanna make sht like this stop? Only one way mate follow this philosphy and the little fcker will never bother you again as long as you've got a hole in your are. Follow him. roughly about 2 weeks should do it. Every time he sees you let him do what he wants show off etc in front of his mates. Once you've followed him you'll notice that he's got a certain place at a certain time of day when he's always there without fail. He'll leave his house alone every day to go to school. One day drive past and get someon to drop you off round the corner of where he is. Grip him and give him the warning no need to hit him. The reason why he'll never bother you again mate is because he'll be waiting for you again looking over his shoulder all the time sitting himself __________________ Jud6572. Eat Big Get Big!

12-09-2003, 12:55 PM	#15 (permalink)
Jud6572 Gym Addict Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Manchester UK Posts: 216	Ive done this so many times and it scares the crap out of people trust me I haven't had a peep of a wnker at my house in 5 years and I live in a very rough part of Manchester people dont like being watched it scares the living sht out of them. Sorry for the essay guys but I know how he feels. __________________ Jud6572. Eat Big Get Big!

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