Thread: My life is falling to sh!t, please help.

Mega BITCH

that's very ****ty mate. family wise, sit them down first chance you get. explain the situation and how you need their support for the sake of your daughter. to do with the ex, i had a mate in a very similar position. first thing he did was get in touch with a solicitor before she did; these things can drag on and on.

also, aas are a class c drug, legal to import and possess for personal use. only supplying is against the law. if what you have is pharma grade, you can wave it at the police and they can't touch you for it.

best of luck and keep your chin up mate.

she cant prove you take them and no one can make you have a test, so just tell her to **** off and get a life

Thats not good mate to be honest i think you both need time to chill out and remember that your daughter is the number 1 priority and try and come some sort of arrangement so it doesnt affect your daughter .

Mate, come off them, run PCT so they are not in your system, let her call the police try and get a blood test done to show that you are not on them and then... Well I cant say on a public forum

Get yourself a good lawyer and listen to their advice.

Tape all telephone conversations or keep a record of any dialogue.

Do not do anything stupid or anything that will inflame the situation

Originally Posted by ParaManiac

Tape all telephone conversations or keep a record of any dialogue.

Do not do anything stupid or anything that will inflame the situation

That. ANd look up Parental Alienation Syndrome.

Steroids are NOT illegal for personal use, dunno about losing your job, but she's just trying to scare you and going on one at the deep end. Maybe write a letter of complaint to the National Drugs Helpline for giving duff and advice

She is trying her best to hurt you. Don't react to it, she will probably try loads of spiteful things to get a reaction out of you, just don't hit the panic button.
With a bit of luck she will get over being hurt herself and stop trying to take it out on you. Keep your cool and you will come off as being the sensible one.
Hope it all ends well.

Originally Posted by Beklet

That. ANd look up Parental Alienation Syndrome.

Steroids are NOT illegal for personal use, dunno about losing your job, but she's just trying to scare you and going on one at the deep end. Maybe write a letter of complaint to the National Drugs Helpline for giving duff and advice

Off one. I can't write today

I hate it when women get like this - gives us all a bad name. Emotional blackmail is just disgusting.

And so the dirty war begins....

Sorry for you mate, women are evil in a situation like this, she is only hurting herself by being like this.

WHat does she actually hope to achieve by making these accusations? If she has no evidence, she is treading on thin ice, so make sure she doesn't get any.

Good luck with thisissue bud

SD

Am sorry to hear this bud.

She sounds like a loon anyone that is prepared to mess with someone elses life that much deserves whats coming to them. Especially when they use their own child as a weapon

Go and see a FEMALE family solicitor asap, she is p1ssy because it's over, some women find this hard to accept, she can not stop you from access to your child. As for the gear she is tryin to scare you, and hurt you by gettin in touch with your family members.

Deep breathes and get on with it, the ball has started to roll and will pick up more sh1t on the way down the hill.....get to the solicitors and have everything put down on paper, she will try her damndest to ruin you now, and the only person that matters in this is your child.
Good luck
Linda xxx

Originally Posted by ParaManiac

Get yourself a good lawyer and listen to their advice.

Tape all telephone conversations or keep a record of any dialogue.

Do not do anything stupid or anything that will inflame the situation

Good idea! Most mobile phones now have a sound recorder and if you have one where you can browse your menu on call you should be able to activate it and tape the conversation.

Originally Posted by Longshanks

She is trying her best to hurt you. Don't react to it, she will probably try loads of spiteful things to get a reaction out of you, just don't hit the panic button.
With a bit of luck she will get over being hurt herself and stop trying to take it out on you. Keep your cool and you will come off as being the sensible one.
Hope it all ends well.

bump that

Originally Posted by SportDr

And so the dirty war begins....

Sorry for you mate, women are evil in a situation like this, she is only hurting herself by being like this.

WHat does she actually hope to achieve by making these accusations? If she has no evidence, she is treading on thin ice, so make sure she doesn't get any.

Good luck with thisissue bud

SD

And that