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_-NaTh-_ · 22-08-2006, 02:43 PM

I understand what Tom's saying. I guess i just picked the right girl at the wrong time.. Would love to talk to Tom about my dilema.

NJL

**Tinytom** · 22-08-2006, 02:48 PM

PM me and I'll send you a link to a good site about male evolution and chatting up techniques etc etc

bigdaftjoe · 22-08-2006, 04:01 PM

pookie yer fag get her smashed unless its yer ma? ;)

**hackskii** · 22-08-2006, 04:06 PM

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Originally Posted by pookie69

OK - reading that just depressed the crap outta me :(

I am HUGELY attracted to older women incidentally

I'm 24 and am friends with a 40 yr old lady who flirts with me shamelessly! I so wanna go there... but i don't think i should :(

Ah........I have news for you. That action would be very rewarding sexually to you.
Older women really know how to satisfy a man big time.
Some of the best sex I ever had came from a 50 year old woman that was looking to take care of my sexual needs.
She wasnt the prettiest but man she was a wild animal.

Older women dont like those obnixious, arrogent, immature type guys.

bigdaftjoe · 22-08-2006, 04:10 PM

dont like or cant have?

pookie69 · 22-08-2006, 05:35 PM

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Originally Posted by bigdaftjoe

pookie yer fag get her smashed unless its yer ma? ;)

LOL! No, it's not my ma!

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Originally Posted by hackskii

Ah........I have news for you. That action would be very rewarding sexually to you.
Older women really know how to satisfy a man big time.

Well yea, that's what she keeps telling me! But i can't help but think she's only playing with me

- she gets off on seeing me blush and squirm, i'm certain!

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Some of the best sex I ever had came from a 50 year old woman that was looking to take care of my sexual needs.
She wasnt the prettiest but man she was a wild animal.

My friend is very yummy looking - definitely does not look her age - great legs and bum

. How old were you when you were involved with the 50 year old?

DB · 22-08-2006, 05:36 PM

smash her mate... then i bet the desire to be with her soon goes..

the_gre8t_1ne · 22-08-2006, 05:39 PM

^^Cant beat logic can ya^^? lol

**hackskii** · 22-08-2006, 06:06 PM

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Originally Posted by pookie69

How old were you when you were involved with the 50 year old?

I was 37 at the time.
Funny thing 3 weeks earlier I had a 19 year old.
To be honest the 50 year old blew her out of the bedroom.
The 19 year old had a fantastic body but didnt know how to use it.
The 50 year old didnt have a fantastic body but knew how to use it.

On another note the 50 year old we could talk, the 19 year old we could not do anything like go to bars, Vegas, nowhere (drinking age is 21 in california), this limited our prospects of doing stuff.
But on a good note she could clean your house better than a hand full of single guys

She was wanting me to knock her up. She wanted a baby so I would take care of her.
This scarred the crap out of me.

wiseguy83 · 22-08-2006, 07:53 PM

fcuk women lift weights!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!just sick to one nite stands its a lot eazyer.

pookie69 · 22-08-2006, 07:55 PM

19 yr old all the way to 50?! Nice, i like a man who is open to anything and everything

And for me personally, older women do it for me much moreso than young girlies my own age, but maybe that's only because i have never gotten it on with one and so maybe DB's right? The allure may well go away as soon as i've experienced it. Then again, maybe not!

bigdaftjoe · 22-08-2006, 08:10 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by hackskii

I was 37 at the time.
Funny thing 3 weeks earlier I had a 19 year old.
To be honest the 50 year old blew her out of the bedroom.
The 19 year old had a fantastic body but didnt know how to use it.
The 50 year old didnt have a fantastic body but knew how to use it.

On another note the 50 year old we could talk, the 19 year old we could not do anything like go to bars, Vegas, nowhere (drinking age is 21 in california), this limited our prospects of doing stuff.
But on a good note she could clean your house better than a hand full of single guys

She was wanting me to knock her up. She wanted a baby so I would take care of her.
This scarred the crap out of me.

freudian?

wiseguy83 · 22-08-2006, 09:29 PM

stop been a niceguy and become a WISEGUY!it worked for me mate hard as nails my heart now.ka peesh!lol

Gridlock · 22-08-2006, 10:56 PM

There is one basic rule you have to know in order to understand women,

The MOST important thing to a woman is building and maintaining social status.

What a woman looks for in a man is the ability to increase her own social status by being associated with him.

In short a woman wants a man who has higher social status than her.

What are the signs of social status? well - looks & fitness, money and power, intelligence, the ability to be a leader, drive and determination, confidence, number of friends/social group.

Signs of low social status - unfortunately - being a nice guy.- nice guys don't crave and demand power, nice guys don't lead, nice guys don't go out there and get what they want.

Unfortunately when you pander to a woman, tell her she is amazing, buy her things, admire her, compliment her - you are giving her the sign * you are better than me * and in turn - * I lower your social status *.

So.....A woman wants a man who she thinks is better than her, the guy knows or thinks she is below him and so treats her like ****. The worse he treats her the higher value she thinks he has compared to her, the more she likes him.

This incidentally is one of the reasons it is hard to get a woman into bed, sleeping with guys has NEGATIVE social implications for a woman, to be seen as a slag lowers her social status.

DB · 22-08-2006, 10:57 PM

excellent post grid

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Gridlock A diamond in the rough Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 1,231	There is one basic rule you have to know in order to understand women, The MOST important thing to a woman is building and maintaining social status. What a woman looks for in a man is the ability to increase her own social status by being associated with him. In short a woman wants a man who has higher social status than her. What are the signs of social status? well - looks & fitness, money and power, intelligence, the ability to be a leader, drive and determination, confidence, number of friends/social group. Signs of low social status - unfortunately - being a nice guy.- nice guys don't crave and demand power, nice guys don't lead, nice guys don't go out there and get what they want. Unfortunately when you pander to a woman, tell her she is amazing, buy her things, admire her, compliment her - you are giving her the sign * you are better than me * and in turn - * I lower your social status . So.....A woman wants a man who she thinks is better than her, the guy knows or thinks she is below him and so treats her like **. The worse he treats her the higher value she thinks he has compared to her, the more she likes him. This incidentally is one of the reasons it is hard to get a woman into bed, sleeping with guys has NEGATIVE social implications for a woman, to be seen as a slag lowers her social status. Last edited by Gridlock; 22-08-2006 at 10:58 PM.*

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22-08-2006, 02:43 PM	#16 (permalink)
_-NaTh-_ Gym Addict Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Lancashire.. Posts: 107	I understand what Tom's saying. I guess i just picked the right girl at the wrong time.. Would love to talk to Tom about my dilema. NJL

22-08-2006, 04:01 PM	#18 (permalink)
bigdaftjoe poon star Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: sunderland Posts: 1,310	pookie yer fag get her smashed unless its yer ma? ;)

22-08-2006, 04:10 PM	#20 (permalink)
bigdaftjoe poon star Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: sunderland Posts: 1,310	dont like or cant have?

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the_gre8t_1ne Your Friendly neighbourhood pusha! Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: The Ghetto (West, London) Posts: 4,086	^^Cant beat logic can ya^^? lol

22-08-2006, 07:53 PM	#25 (permalink)
wiseguy83 Banned Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 273	fcuk women lift weights!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!just sick to one nite stands its a lot eazyer.

22-08-2006, 07:55 PM	#26 (permalink)
pookie69 Robot In Disguise Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: London Posts: 201	19 yr old all the way to 50?! Nice, i like a man who is open to anything and everything And for me personally, older women do it for me much moreso than young girlies my own age, but maybe that's only because i have never gotten it on with one and so maybe DB's right? The allure may well go away as soon as i've experienced it. Then again, maybe not!

22-08-2006, 09:29 PM	#28 (permalink)
wiseguy83 Banned Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 273	stop been a niceguy and become a WISEGUY!it worked for me mate hard as nails my heart now.ka peesh!lol