ok so here's the basics ... its a long one so bare with me
Little brother is 20, he used to be a really nice happy yet quiet lad, couple of girlfriends but genrally quite shy (we arent that close imo)
Got with this girl from work, 3 months later they ended up announcing they were pregnant ...
'she' as i like to call her ... before the baby was born we never saw her, me or the family. she just went off with my brother in a flat and they made little contact...
Mum hated the idea of becoming a grandmother as my brother was so young.Anyway she came to love the little lad as soon as he was born, her and my dad decided to move all 3 of them into their house to live with them ...
Anyway since then,
My brother has been so horrible to my parents
No thanks for putting them up
Dumping their baby on them all the time so they can go out
NO-ONE is allowed to talk to his gf . as she just winges at him and blows up.
After the baby was born she suffered badly from post natal depression , but couldn't see that ... we did ALL we could to help.
One night my brother rang me in tears, she had turned suiceidal, she was out in town and kept saying "bye, im goin now . im gunna do it " etc .
She didnt wna see him so he rang me and said will i go and see to her.
I went looking for her in out in town and ... me, her and her 2 mates went back to mine to calm down....
Anyway i ended up loosing it with her (wrong thing to do) but she was saying she wished she never had my nephew etc. and wished him dead
(shes genrally a good mother to be fair) i ended up kicking them all out , luckilly my brother was outside in the car and threw her in and drove off lol
Since then my mum more or less had it with their winging and told them if they cant be civil to her and my dad find sumwere else which I don't blame her cos we have all tried sittin down with him seprtly and talking but he won't listen and just think we are havin ago at him... THAT VERY night they moved out without saying bye .... then my mum knew she wud see very very little of her grandson again
little contact has been made by him, except wen i txt him asking how he is ... i dont get a reply (non of us do)..
But when i txt him having a go at him only then does he reply..
They have moved in a flat together, not comin round for xmas , last night he told me "fcuk off dont txt me again" (when i showed my dad that, it had him in tears)
My mum saw him last night in the supermarket... she said he looks like the walking dead
Pale, thin face. lost ;loads of weight . we all are so worried
I just dont no what to do