Who Initiates Sex - UK-Muscle Body Building Community

HIGHLANDER · 20-07-2006, 09:57 PM

I read in the paper yesterday that about 80% of married women only had sex with their husbands to keep the peace and were mostly too tired to want it,or it just didnt do it for them anymore and they FAKED orgasims.WTF if its not doing it for them why dont they just say so they can try somethingelse.
I probably go along with the initiation side of this as its mostly me that starts the ball rolling in our house,to the point that you feel like a dirty old man perving after your missus,even if you give the signs all day ie tell her so,touchy feely,hugs kisses generally more contact than normal it still doesnt mean bedroom aerobics or even anything that they wanted ie duration,tenderness wham bam anything to please her.How do you read the signs that they are interested on that day as most women are not as blatant as men and will not just come out and ask you for it.The article stated men initiated 90% of sex in the relationship,I feel for you guys on the gear if this is the case as you must feel like OLD FAITHFUL ready to blow,but just not as regular and definitly without the tourists taking the photos.IS THE ARTICLE RIGHT GUYS AND GIRLS IF SO WHAT DO US GUYS DO TO NOT FEEL SO SEX MAD IF IT IS A ONE WAY STREET RE INITIATION.
Enough from me NOW WHERES MY MISSUS

Peg · 20-07-2006, 10:18 PM

I've always been the exception to these kind of statistics.

I'm in the 20% that initiates. Hell, I'd love to have a pervy man pursuing me with all those touchy feeling things instead of me pursuing him.

These 80%, I would speculate are not feeling sexy or beautiful about themselves, perhaps too tired, perhaps the partners is not helping to make them feel sexy or beautiful, perhaps they are feeling like mom instead of lover, perhaps they are bored and want some adventure and daring, perhaps they are feeling that the man is only interested in his own orgasm and not hers.

Help develop a sex mad woman.

Make her feel cherished, pursued, sexy, beautiful. Of course, when that happens, you won't get anything done around the house.

Tatyana · 20-07-2006, 10:33 PM

Ditto Peg, my libido was higher than my ex hubby and a few ex BFs. I have done some chasing in my time

, so lads I can relate.

A regular partner sounds like Nirvana to me!

I think I should stop blogging now before I get myself in trouble.

:love:

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jugganaut · 21-07-2006, 12:24 AM

Im not surprised at those statistics. Men usually intiate sex. But I think women want sex just as much as men do, but naturally having less testosterone, they need alot stimulation for what test they have to get their minds and body wanting sex.
Also modern life, religion,work stresses, poor diet, lack of exercise, doesnt make things good in the bedroom or wherever you wanna do the deed.

**hackskii** · 21-07-2006, 12:35 AM

Damn, you two are too much, where have you both been all of my life

I most of the time did the pursuing.
But in the begenning of the relationship I actually thought that my GF had some nympho issues or something.

But after our child it got a bit tame.
If I feel that I am going to strike out I just go into my room, lock the door and take care of self.
I will not beg, I will give here the universal look but if that goes unnoticed then I resort to plan B

**big** · 21-07-2006, 12:45 AM

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Originally Posted by hackskii

I will not beg, I will give here the universal look but if that goes unnoticed then I resort to plan B

Can I be plan C then? :love:

Foz1 · 21-07-2006, 12:53 AM

Most of the time it is the bloke that initiates the sex - I think some women have some weird issues with starting the sex. A few of the lads at work have discussed womens weird problems when it comes to things of a sexual nature, for instance, if an average looking woman walked up to you whilst stood at the bar and asks "can i give you a blowjob, no strings attached" the answer would naturally be "why of course you can, blow away", however, if a good looking bloke walked up to an average looking woman and said "could i give you a cleaning out" the answer would result in the woman breaking a nail and seriously damaging the blokes ego.

Women, what a strange breed they are!

chemist · 21-07-2006, 12:56 AM

being on test i want it all the time.even so my gf still wants it more than me.in this weather though i have to change the sheets every day because of the tren sweats

**hackskii** · 21-07-2006, 01:09 AM

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Originally Posted by chemist

being on test i want it all the time.even so my gf still wants it more than me.in this weather though i have to change the sheets every day because of the tren sweats

Damn, that sounds like alot of fun.

**Robsta** · 21-07-2006, 03:13 AM

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Originally Posted by chemist

being on test i want it all the time.even so my gf still wants it more than me.in this weather though i have to change the sheets every day because of the tren sweats

WTF??? are YOU doing changing the sheets....get your gf in line now mate....before it's too late and she thinks she's an equal....as for initiating sex.....just say the words...."upstairs now".....never fails and if it does....go to the pub and talk about football...:p

Golden Man · 21-07-2006, 07:28 AM

At least im not alone.Hackskii your in my club at first she was a nympho enter the house jump me want it now......oh well the past is the past oh how I miss that part of past.Does signs huhh you have to be a mind reader.Ladies,wifes hidden messages,signals whatever isnt obvious enough YOU HAVE TO BE BLATANT.Peg and tat I think you should bottle up what your on and sell it as it would make alot of men alot happier(and its an excuse )but more likely to keep their worm in their pants rather than go hunting for something moist!!!

Magic Torch · 21-07-2006, 07:57 AM

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Originally Posted by robsta9

WTF??? are YOU doing changing the sheets....get your gf in line now mate....before it's too late and she thinks she's an equal....as for initiating sex.....just say the words...."upstairs now".....never fails and if it does....go to the pub and talk about football...:p

LMAO Rob, true words.

Amen

Delhi · 21-07-2006, 09:39 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Peg

Help develop a sex mad woman.

Make her feel cherished, pursued, sexy, beautiful. Of course, when that happens, you won't get anything done around the house.

Why should men need to do this Peg???

Why does this not read:

Help develop a sex mad man.

Make him feel cherished, pursued, sexy, beautiful. Of course, when that happens, you won't get any wages coming in from employment.

:love: Peg

It is always the same BS, women want equlaity, and when they get it they want more, and when they get that they want more...........................and on and on. Fcuk this is it not about time this BS stopped?

If a female in a relationship does not want sex then they should get out of it (Relationship)!!

**Tinytom** · 21-07-2006, 09:54 AM

you guys......

you should come to the club I work at on the weekend.

Plenty of forward thinking wenches there. lol

kyrocera · 21-07-2006, 10:12 AM

I think its about 50/50 with me and my bird, last night i initiated it cos in the afternoon i got a football in my balls (bloody hurt) and she said she'd kiss 'em better, so when i went round there i said errr...you owe me some kisses, and she said your gonna have to take your pants off then....

and away we go....Blowjob4.gif

20-07-2006, 09:57 PM	#1 (permalink)
HIGHLANDER Newbie Trainer Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 52	Who Initiates Sex I read in the paper yesterday that about 80% of married women only had sex with their husbands to keep the peace and were mostly too tired to want it,or it just didnt do it for them anymore and they FAKED orgasims.WTF if its not doing it for them why dont they just say so they can try somethingelse. I probably go along with the initiation side of this as its mostly me that starts the ball rolling in our house,to the point that you feel like a dirty old man perving after your missus,even if you give the signs all day ie tell her so,touchy feely,hugs kisses generally more contact than normal it still doesnt mean bedroom aerobics or even anything that they wanted ie duration,tenderness wham bam anything to please her.How do you read the signs that they are interested on that day as most women are not as blatant as men and will not just come out and ask you for it.The article stated men initiated 90% of sex in the relationship,I feel for you guys on the gear if this is the case as you must feel like OLD FAITHFUL ready to blow,but just not as regular and definitly without the tourists taking the photos.IS THE ARTICLE RIGHT GUYS AND GIRLS IF SO WHAT DO US GUYS DO TO NOT FEEL SO SEX MAD IF IT IS A ONE WAY STREET RE INITIATION. Enough from me NOW WHERES MY MISSUS

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20-07-2006, 10:18 PM	#2 (permalink)
Peg Getting HUGE! Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 1,467	I've always been the exception to these kind of statistics. I'm in the 20% that initiates. Hell, I'd love to have a pervy man pursuing me with all those touchy feeling things instead of me pursuing him. These 80%, I would speculate are not feeling sexy or beautiful about themselves, perhaps too tired, perhaps the partners is not helping to make them feel sexy or beautiful, perhaps they are feeling like mom instead of lover, perhaps they are bored and want some adventure and daring, perhaps they are feeling that the man is only interested in his own orgasm and not hers. Help develop a sex mad woman. Make her feel cherished, pursued, sexy, beautiful. Of course, when that happens, you won't get anything done around the house.

20-07-2006, 10:33 PM	#3 (permalink)
Tatyana My name is EARL Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: On my bloody bike doing cardio Posts: 3,477	Ditto Peg, my libido was higher than my ex hubby and a few ex BFs. I have done some chasing in my time , so lads I can relate. A regular partner sounds like Nirvana to me! I think I should stop blogging now before I get myself in trouble. :love: x x x T

21-07-2006, 12:24 AM	#4 (permalink)
jugganaut Gym Addict Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: London Ennit! Posts: 154	Im not surprised at those statistics. Men usually intiate sex. But I think women want sex just as much as men do, but naturally having less testosterone, they need alot stimulation for what test they have to get their minds and body wanting sex. Also modern life, religion,work stresses, poor diet, lack of exercise, doesnt make things good in the bedroom or wherever you wanna do the deed.

21-07-2006, 12:35 AM	#5 (permalink)
hackskii UK-Muscle Moderator Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Sunny Southern California U.S.A. Posts: 24,337	Damn, you two are too much, where have you both been all of my life I most of the time did the pursuing. But in the begenning of the relationship I actually thought that my GF had some nympho issues or something. But after our child it got a bit tame. If I feel that I am going to strike out I just go into my room, lock the door and take care of self. I will not beg, I will give here the universal look but if that goes unnoticed then I resort to plan B

21-07-2006, 12:53 AM	#7 (permalink)
Foz1 Gym Addict Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: Manchester Posts: 339	Most of the time it is the bloke that initiates the sex - I think some women have some weird issues with starting the sex. A few of the lads at work have discussed womens weird problems when it comes to things of a sexual nature, for instance, if an average looking woman walked up to you whilst stood at the bar and asks "can i give you a blowjob, no strings attached" the answer would naturally be "why of course you can, blow away", however, if a good looking bloke walked up to an average looking woman and said "could i give you a cleaning out" the answer would result in the woman breaking a nail and seriously damaging the blokes ego. Women, what a strange breed they are!

21-07-2006, 12:56 AM	#8 (permalink)
chemist Gym Addict Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 109	being on test i want it all the time.even so my gf still wants it more than me.in this weather though i have to change the sheets every day because of the tren sweats

21-07-2006, 07:28 AM	#11 (permalink)
Golden Man MY TROUSERS ARE TO BIG Join Date: Sep 2005 Posts: 881	At least im not alone.Hackskii your in my club at first she was a nympho enter the house jump me want it now......oh well the past is the past oh how I miss that part of past.Does signs huhh you have to be a mind reader.Ladies,wifes hidden messages,signals whatever isnt obvious enough YOU HAVE TO BE BLATANT.Peg and tat I think you should bottle up what your on and sell it as it would make alot of men alot happier(and its an excuse )but more likely to keep their worm in their pants rather than go hunting for something moist!!!

21-07-2006, 10:12 AM	#15 (permalink)
kyrocera Head of UK-M's neighbourhood boob watch. Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: Southampton Posts: 1,531	I think its about 50/50 with me and my bird, last night i initiated it cos in the afternoon i got a football in my balls (bloody hurt) and she said she'd kiss 'em better, so when i went round there i said errr...you owe me some kisses, and she said your gonna have to take your pants off then.... and away we go....Blowjob4.gif