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Carlos901 · 02-06-2006, 12:58 AM

ok guys, not sure how to explain this but here it goes

when the kid is born i have been told i will have to pay 1/3 of my wage as maintanance for the kid, but lets say i had a car and im paying insurance, petrol etc, would i still have to pay the 1/3 ? im not sure how it works.

Tatyana · 02-06-2006, 01:03 AM

If you are on good terms with the mom, you can negotiate stuff.

I know of a few lads that have done that, and then buy the kids the stuff they need like clothes on weekend visits.

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romeo69 · 02-06-2006, 01:10 AM

Or go on the dole.

**hackskii** · 02-06-2006, 01:21 AM

Keep her nice bro.
I negotiated with mine and saved a bundle.

In California, it is a set rate depending how much you make and the amount of visitation.
The more time you get with the child the less you pay.
If you wave your visitation in California you pay dearly.

Tatyana · 02-06-2006, 01:28 AM

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Originally Posted by hackskii

Keep her nice bro.
I negotiated with mine and saved a bundle.

In California, it is a set rate depending how much you make and the amount of visitation.
The more time you get with the child the less you pay.
If you wave your visitation in California you pay dearly.

That is not a bad rule, probably need some adjusting.

Guys here have to pay child support and may not be ABLE to see their kids, like have to spend BUNDLES in legal fees.

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**Great White** · 02-06-2006, 09:49 AM

It comes straight out of your paycheck each month mate before it even hits your back.

So, say you got paid, after tax, £1000, £333 of that would never even touch your bank account, leaving you with £667 for the month.

Bit of a ****ter really.

powerU · 02-06-2006, 12:10 PM

that's nonsense - even if you go through the CSA, it's only 15% of your take home pay, reduced by 1/7 for every night you have the child - FACT.

Ironman · 02-06-2006, 12:14 PM

Agree ^^^ - but you may be better of still if you dont go through the csa - try and keep it between you and the babies mum. But make sure you get reciepts etc.
Not sure if this is true but Ive heard that what you pay to the csa doesant nesesserily equal what the mum gets paid from the csa - ie you pay them say 200 a month - and from that 150 may go to the mum.

**Great White** · 02-06-2006, 12:14 PM

I did think 33% was a bit much.

**Great White** · 02-06-2006, 12:15 PM

Oh, Carl - You 100% sure its yours now,

I remember in your other thread you were not 100% sure?

DB · 02-06-2006, 12:16 PM

damn just think a condom would have only cost a quid

powerU · 02-06-2006, 12:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Ironman

Agree ^^^ - but you may be better of still if you dont go through the csa - try and keep it between you and the babies mum. But make sure you get reciepts etc.
Not sure if this is true but Ive heard that what you pay to the csa doesant nesesserily equal what the mum gets paid from the csa - ie you pay them say 200 a month - and from that 150 may go to the mum.

True if the mother is paid state benefits - the amount extra she gets is capped (at about £10 per week!) and the rest goes to the DSS.

**Great White** · 02-06-2006, 12:23 PM

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Originally Posted by DB

damn just think a condom would have only cost a quid

Mine cost a bit more when i used to use them, wernt many places that sold XXXXXL at the time ;)

**hackskii** · 02-06-2006, 04:57 PM

33% sounds too high to me.
California is like 21% before taxes and any overtime is calculated in.
But the more visitation the less cash.

Me and my Daughters Mom, settled out of court. Man, that was the best thing I ever did.
I saved all the receipts but she needed to get a car and her credit was terrible.
So, I did the stupid and bought her a car. If push came to shove she could say I never paid her. If this were to happen all that money is tossed.
Worse yet the court could just say "hey thanks for being a nice guy and buy your daughters mother a car!"

Guys get hosed in California. It was all the dead beat Dads I have to thank for that. The pendulim swong hard one way but is starting to come back now. More men are getting custody now whereas before that never happened. You would have to prove the mother was unfit and the never happened.

Carl, if you can settle with the Mom, get it in writing, have it notorised and a judge rule on it. This locks you in to your guys aggrement.
If you make her mad, she will take you down hard.
In California, the woman is considered a victom and the Man is considered a paycheck.

mitch · 02-06-2006, 05:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Paul Govier

Mine cost a bit more when i used to use them, wernt many places that sold XXXXXL at the time ;)

You put them on your **** not your arm Paul!

02-06-2006, 12:58 AM	#1 (permalink)
Carlos901 Legend Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 1,805	1 third of my wage for kid ok guys, not sure how to explain this but here it goes when the kid is born i have been told i will have to pay 1/3 of my wage as maintanance for the kid, but lets say i had a car and im paying insurance, petrol etc, would i still have to pay the 1/3 ? im not sure how it works.

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02-06-2006, 01:03 AM	#2 (permalink)
Tatyana My name is EARL Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: On my bloody bike doing cardio Posts: 3,477	If you are on good terms with the mom, you can negotiate stuff. I know of a few lads that have done that, and then buy the kids the stuff they need like clothes on weekend visits. x x x T

02-06-2006, 01:10 AM	#3 (permalink)
romeo69 Little Boy Who Likes To Dress Up! Join Date: Sep 2005 Posts: 771	Or go on the dole.

02-06-2006, 01:21 AM	#4 (permalink)
hackskii UK-Muscle Moderator Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Sunny Southern California U.S.A. Posts: 24,337	Keep her nice bro. I negotiated with mine and saved a bundle. In California, it is a set rate depending how much you make and the amount of visitation. The more time you get with the child the less you pay. If you wave your visitation in California you pay dearly.

02-06-2006, 09:49 AM	#6 (permalink)
Great White Sexy Moderator Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: United Kingdom Posts: 9,262	It comes straight out of your paycheck each month mate before it even hits your back. So, say you got paid, after tax, £1000, £333 of that would never even touch your bank account, leaving you with £667 for the month. Bit of a ****ter really.

02-06-2006, 12:10 PM	#7 (permalink)
powerU Getting HUGE! Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Derbyshire Posts: 1,141	that's nonsense - even if you go through the CSA, it's only 15% of your take home pay, reduced by 1/7 for every night you have the child - FACT.

02-06-2006, 12:14 PM	#8 (permalink)
Ironman Sculpting the masterpiece Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 1,464	Agree ^^^ - but you may be better of still if you dont go through the csa - try and keep it between you and the babies mum. But make sure you get reciepts etc. Not sure if this is true but Ive heard that what you pay to the csa doesant nesesserily equal what the mum gets paid from the csa - ie you pay them say 200 a month - and from that 150 may go to the mum.

02-06-2006, 12:14 PM	#9 (permalink)
Great White Sexy Moderator Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: United Kingdom Posts: 9,262	I did think 33% was a bit much.

02-06-2006, 12:15 PM	#10 (permalink)
Great White Sexy Moderator Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: United Kingdom Posts: 9,262	Oh, Carl - You 100% sure its yours now, I remember in your other thread you were not 100% sure?

02-06-2006, 04:57 PM	#14 (permalink)
hackskii UK-Muscle Moderator Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Sunny Southern California U.S.A. Posts: 24,337	33% sounds too high to me. California is like 21% before taxes and any overtime is calculated in. But the more visitation the less cash. Me and my Daughters Mom, settled out of court. Man, that was the best thing I ever did. I saved all the receipts but she needed to get a car and her credit was terrible. So, I did the stupid and bought her a car. If push came to shove she could say I never paid her. If this were to happen all that money is tossed. Worse yet the court could just say "hey thanks for being a nice guy and buy your daughters mother a car!" Guys get hosed in California. It was all the dead beat Dads I have to thank for that. The pendulim swong hard one way but is starting to come back now. More men are getting custody now whereas before that never happened. You would have to prove the mother was unfit and the never happened. Carl, if you can settle with the Mom, get it in writing, have it notorised and a judge rule on it. This locks you in to your guys aggrement. If you make her mad, she will take you down hard. In California, the woman is considered a victom and the Man is considered a paycheck.