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| My name is EARL Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: On my bloody bike doing cardio
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Or anyone wrong. I try not to play in the world of right and wrong when it comes to a lot of stuff. x x x T | |
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| Banned Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Harrow, London, England.
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I had a similar reply typed up, but out of respect to Paul and Lorian, I'm not descending to your level. And you'd find that kicking me in the head is NOT in your future. Dude - you clearly have rage issues, I've suspected so for a while, and now you've confirmed it for me. I'm sure I'm not the first to notice, but at the rate you're going, I'm going to be one of the last. Get help - from your family, friends, professionals, post here, whatever, I don't care. Just check yourself before you wreck yourself. Tom - talk to chumster above about "advocating violence", not me. The matter's closed, as far as I'm concerned, let's all cool off. Peace. KS | |
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| Getting HUGE! Join Date: Feb 2006
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![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | Tatyana: I find in cases like these there are guiding principles to follow that can protect us from these life changing events, but as my father told me once, "We are full aware of our own choices and must accept the responsibility for them. Sometimes we can be more critical of ourselves than any other person can be." I try to see all aspects of the reality of the situation and make the best out of it. Yes, I remember the lads slagging the woman. It seems to always be the woman's fault from the man's point of view now doesn't it. I suspect the men will think that women always think it's the man's fault. That's as old as Adam and Eve... passing the buck. Carlos is heads above the rest and has my respect for his strength of heart and love for not passing the buck. I think what I was thinking of was more from a parent's point of view. There was no need to vent and tell my daughter what she did was a grievious mistake as she already knew and understood the consequences of the "mistake". I could either support and encourage her and be there for her in her choices or alienate her with criticism and a cold shoulder. I chose the support and encourage. I think Carlos will be a super daddy and a super spouse if she will just trust him and forgive herself and realise how lucky she is to have him. |
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| poon star Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: sunderland
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![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | i think paternal instinct is perhaps being confused with rage issues and also that people are using this thread to vent their own feelings about previous or present relationships the real issue is that one of our own is going to be a dad and i know that this will bring him more joy than all the jd, charlie and loose moralled bisexual women in the world could ever. Carlos mate life will be what it will be but your child will love you unconditionally forever. |
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| My name is EARL Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: On my bloody bike doing cardio
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OH I am just so clumsy at times! :love: x x x T | |
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| My name is EARL Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: On my bloody bike doing cardio
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Have to say something, cause in all honesty, saying 'kick the B*TCH in the tummy' and I am sure you tamed that down, it pretty fricking advocating violence to women and children. I have learned that violence begets violence and there is no point in taking on a man's ego. I just don't hear ANY REMISS or apology or ANYTHING about the first comment made. I am interpreting it like what you said is acceptable, that violence towards pregnant women (OMG) is ok. Ironman is very, well, full on testosterone at times, YES, however, about 10 years ago I probably would have responded in a very similar manner to your comment. Now I don't think that violence with anyone or anything is cool. It seems like all the responsibility for the initial inappropriate comment is negated because of Ironman's response. I would highly recommend checking out the pot before calling the kettle black in this case. I had to say something or it would really BUG me. And cause I have had a lot of time for you. Seems so out of character for you. Respect T | |
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were was the apology KS? ironman said what many of us thought(i know i did when i read what you said) yet all you have done is say he has problems and needs help! How can you honestly say this when you are advocating something that could(probably would at 9weeks old) Kill an unborn child? what has the baby done wrong here? Carlos and his ex have had problems but the baby hasn't done anything wrong here the baby didn't ask to be concived!! | |
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