hackskii

Rising above is the best thing you can offer.
This tells your brother in a subtle way you have control.
He might take offense at first but maybe, just maybe, he will look to you for guidence....
If so cool, if not then you are still the better man.
This is respect in its truest form...

What if this is a test on you?
A test to see how you handle the situation?

All the best mate............